As a person, I value the bonds I’ve created. I understand that nobody is perfect which is why when I chose to commit to someone, I never leave.

I do not cheat, no one can ever steal me away which is the kind of security I’d like my partner to feel.

I do not take them for granted. I shower them with love in ways I know how. Breakfast in the morning, giving hugs and kisses every chances I get or remind them to stay safe and try not to die when they walk out the door.

I don’t believe that the grass is greener on the other side, I believe in making the grass on my side as green as it could possibly be and that involves genuine love, hard work, commitment and dedication.

I look at my relationships logically. That by default, everyone has issues that they are dealing with, which is why I never look for another and deal with the person I chose. — I choose who gets to have my energy carefully.

Everyday I make the same choice of choosing the same person even when it’s hard because I believe that love, communication, willingness to adapt, learn and grow together is what makes a relationship work no matter who you are with.

There is no such thing as the “perfect fit”. We are all made with flaws, but the only difference is some acknowledge them and want to be better while others accept them as part of who they are. — I’d like to better myself.

Because of my nature of being more accepting and tolerant of others, I look for the same kindness in the person I am with.

As I too am as flawed.

But as much as I am willing to make it work, I, too know when it’s time to let go when I am not wanted. When my energy isn’t reciprocated, when I’m not appreciated, when I try and keep trying several times and they still choose to be without me.

People like me, they get taken for granted all the time because we always come back until we don’t.

I know the very moment when it’s done, when my head gets quiet. when I don’t know where my heart is, it isn’t broken but it’s gone.